How can you make people likes you and treats you better? Getting people to know you or people around you, wants to be in your circle is quite difficult and challenging.Everything in this life, situation on any field, are quite difficult in the beginning, but if you give a shot and worked on it. It would eventually become better in some ways.
There are many types of people out there that we met along the way as we get older. And I know base on the facts, and experiences that the reality, was just a couple of people has a positive attitude and mindset. Am not saying they were too many bad one, but will accepts them for, ” who they are “!…
And depending of what situations, or categories, you would see them fit. There are many categories to which were you wanted to put them. Asked yourselves? Do you want to put a person in category of being neighbors, friends, a best friend, a co-worker, a colleague, live in partner, a mentor, lovers, a part of your families, or all the above at once.
For myself, I wanted to be treated with respects, trustworthy, fair, an honest, with sincere feelings at all times by others. As I treated them equally. Meaning reciprocated in any circumstances of life.
Sure everyone makes mistake, so do I. For an instance, when I made mistake, the first thing come out from my lips was the word ” am sorry “. my bad!. This words will make the person feel better and less disappointed. And ” if ” a person made a mistake, try to acknowledge or accept that he or she admitted his mistakes and let it go. But if a person didn’t accepted an apology to a person who made mistakes even though apologized sincerely then it’s best to get a distance for a while, and let them be.
We couldn’t change people the way they are to get treated better but at least, we could show to them that they could trust us.
I hope this contents may helps and guides you, get to know people around you more better in the future.
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